important info . . .
below is some basic information when it comes to interacting with or following me!
i block freely! if i have you blocked it doesn't automatically mean you broke any of the criteria here.
if i do have you blocked, you're welcome to ask why and i'll tell you (if i remember). i'm not really bothered, as long as you're not block evading for petty drama-filled reasons and/or are someone who knows already and is just finding an excuse to talk to me...
things you should know about me are...
- i'm very forgetful! please don't be offended if i forget who you are or forget certain events!
- i'm confrontational, i never vague people and i'm direct if i'm upset or need to communicate
- my activity may be sporadic and i may go MIA at random. there's a number of reasons for this, but primarily could be caused by disability flareups, mental health episodes, or general paranoia
- i have difficulty at times with socialization thanks to my neurodivergence. please be patient with me!
- that being said, i may misunderstand things often. gentle correction is very appreciated!
- i am, i could say, a bit 'naïve'. due to my upbringing and experiences i really do not know a lot about the world, nor how to do most "basic" things. i'm constantly working to educate myself, but if i'm wrong about something please just gently correct me. i want to learn!
- i prefer to limit interactions with minors, especially people younger than 16. public spaces and commission transactions are fine, and i don't mind offering advice or support, but i don't want to be friends with kids!!!
do not interact if...
- you meet the basic DNI criteria. this means racism, xenophobia, cultural appropriation, LGBTphobia, nazis, ableist, terfs, pedophiles/"MAP"s, etc...
- you infantilize disabled and neurodivergent people
- you believe in reverse racism / that white people can experience racism
- you are or are friends with gilshaelos / gilshaelos1 / anpanpubby / whatever other aliases they're under
- you romanticize or glorify cannibalism, or say things like "cannibalism is an allegory for love"
- you make light of, romanticize, or glorify cults and/or use the word 'cult' as a stand-in word for things like friend groups or fandom groups/fanclubs, or water down cults to games like cult of the lamb
- you think shipping incest or pedophilia is okay, or generally don't believe fiction can affect reality
- are drama hungry/get involved with drama regularly
- . . . or if you're generally just a freak or weirdo >:P